燃烧的影子无处不在。 新人导演很容易犯两种毛病，要么剧情空要么卖弄技巧面面俱到，很显然本片属于后者。片子里找到非常多的元素做更多解读，石油泄漏、基督教、黑帮、兄妹恋、第三者、脱北者、黑户等等都是可扩展理解的线索，但你要想处理好这么多线索不是每一种浅尝辄止式的说一句演一下就完事的，应该是连贯的润物细无声的丰富整个故事，而本片给人最大观感就是大杂烩四不像。 而后半程哥哥与富家女完全简单的沦为工具人。 饭馆的聚会，雪中三人行，两场梦境，生日聚会，录音带，拔掉的智齿，带血的苹果，倒放的跑步，

存在感很高的摄像头，我里小鸡硬邦邦前一句怎么说总是在等待的人群，色彩饱和度较高的室内，大提琴独奏。

看完第八集直接给韦一的精彩演绎打满分，真的没话说，这个人物角色完成度真的很不错。整剧到目前时间线跨的可真大，服化道还有选角看得出来是很用心了，就是人名太难记了，干脆看发色。

男女主那么丑我看得还挺乐，我里小鸡硬邦邦前一句怎么说可能是因为女主的导演梦打动我了？

最后一集金句频出，这强烈的共鸣感，证明我是中年人了吗…… Contentment breeds quiet, which breeds complacency, which breeds unrest. Her marriage was a witness to all of her other failures, like a comorbidity to how she was just getting old. Her marriage is not perfect, but it's not like her being not married is ever gonna make her young again. Nothing could make her unmake the choices that she made. She just didn't know that when she was making the choices that they were gonna limit her other choices that she could make in the future. How can you live when you used to have unlimited choices and you don't have them anymore?